The Surviving Siblings Podcast

In this show, I share my journey about losing my brother to homicide and how I realized that there is little to no support for surviving siblings. This podcast is for you whether you have lost a brother or sister or if you are wanting to understand and support someone who has. I also dedicate this podcast to my brother, Andreas, as he was never afraid to speak his truth and tell his story.

I hope this helps you and you know that you are not alone.

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Welcome to the Surviving Siblings Podcast
Nov. 21, 2021

Welcome to the Surviving Siblings Podcast

This is for all my forgotten mourners, for all my Surviving Siblings. In this podcast, I am going to tell you my story, the story of my brother, what happened and I will tell you how I went on my mourning and healing journey.
The Call That Changed My Life
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March 16, 2022

The Call That Changed My Life

As a surviving sibling, there are defining moments in your journey. The first defining moment is the call, that call that changes your life forever, the call when we discovered what has happened, the call to provide information that you'd never want to receive. This week I’m sharing the first part of my journey, how that call changed my life and the first series of events that happened after that first call. In this episode, I’m covering: The first event [00:01:42] Getting to the hospital [00:09
Discovering Information and Family Arrivals
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March 22, 2022

Discovering Information and Family Arrivals

The journey of a surviving sibling is full of ups and downs. Usually, people come to us to ask about how parents are, people forget that we have also suffered a loss, we are usually the forgotten mourners. This week I’m sharing the first pieces of information that the detectives were able to gather and share with us, as well as how it was seeing my sisters, my mother, and my father while they arrived at the hospital. In this episode I’m covering: Meeting the first detective [00:01:04] Organizing
The Last Goodbye
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March 29, 2022

The Last Goodbye

Everything is so clear but yet blurry at the same time. When it's time to say our last goodbyes, we often find ourselves in disbelief. Disbelief that this is actually happening, disbelief that this is the last time that we will ever see our sibling again. This week I’m sharing how things were after my father arrived from Africa, more pieces of information we got from the detectives as well as my last goodbye to my brother. In this episode I’m covering: Supporting me and remembering my brother [0
Hoping For The Best
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April 6, 2022

Hoping For The Best

Death can be something that can unite or separate families. It’s not natural for parents to lose their children, but what happens to the other siblings that are still on this Earth? Surviving the death of a sibling is not easy, every step of the journey is painful. On top of that pain, the siblings have to deal with so many other situations. Reality begins to hit and everything starts to feel real. You feel lonely, even if you’re surrounded by a sea of people. In this week's episode, I am sharin
Waiting with the Truth
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April 13, 2022

Waiting with the Truth

Abandoned and alone, I had to wait for my family to call me back. When you’re grieving, you really need a support system, someone that’s going to be there for you and help you through the trauma. My family was not that for me. In this week's episode, I am sharing about how I was coping with not only grief but also abandonment, what happened before my brother’s celebration of life, and disappointing moments with my mother. In this episode I’m covering: Abandoned and alone [00:01:00] Memories of m

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Reviews

An absolute MUST for surviving siblings and anyone who knows someone who has lost a sibling

"Maya’s podcast is a game changer for people, like myself, who have lost a sibling. There are so many resources (books, articles, conversations, podcasts, information of any kind really) about so many…"

prplhazing | Sept. 21, 2022

An incredible resource for Forgotten Mourners and those who care for them.

"The host, Maya Roffler, leads the way by sharing her story in season one, with a depth rarely heard or told, as if listening to a close friend. In season two, she invites guests to share their storie…"

InnerTrailblazer | Feb. 15, 2023